in ,

远距离恋爱至今3年!印裔男子和华裔女友不畏艰难!“虽然家人不接受,但我们不放弃!”

许多人说远距离恋爱能修成正果的几率非常低,尤其异国恋更难!时间和距离的考验,还加上种族、文化的冲突,异国恋不容易啊~

近日,一名印裔男子在面子书分享了他和台裔女友的甜蜜爱情故事,感动了大批网友们!

原文翻译如下:

这是一个关于异国恋的故事,虽然是远距离恋爱,但最重要的是:充满着爱。

3年前,我为了海外学期而离开香港,去了英国的哥伦比亚大学(University of British Columbia)。在一次的交换学生派对上,我遇到了这位名叫 Claire 的台湾女孩。

当时她喝醉酒了,让我在面子书上加她为朋友。我们第一次相遇,而且才见面2分钟,她就叫我这么做, 我觉得很奇怪,但后来我们经过一些交流后,我还是加了她。

你猜后来怎么样?第二天,她竟然把我给忘了,完全想不起我。但她仍然在面子书接受了我的“朋友请求”(Friend request)。 3年后,我们还在一起。

我们在一起的3年里,90%的时间都是处于远距离:香港 – 台北、孟买(Mumbai, India)- 台北、匹兹堡(Pittsburgh)- 华盛顿(Washington DC),而现在就是匹兹堡(Pittsburgh)- 台北。

远距离恋爱并不容易,但我们为了彼此都尽了一切的努力:互相信任、从不说谎、从不隐瞒,并寻找各种方式来表达对彼此的爱。我们克服了这一切的障碍,只希望我们能在不久的将来,一起在同一个城市里。

我3次去台北见她,她的家人也非常疼爱我。他们都很善良,对我和女友的异国恋,他们表示非常接受。但我的家人至今并不支持我们的异国恋,所以我希望我的家人也能够像 Claire 的家人那样。

作为长期的承诺和未来的妻子,因为 Claire 的肤色,我的家人非常认真地表示不接受她。他们甚至试图让我和她分手(寻找一个“印裔好女孩”来替代),但我们并没有因此而被打败。

当他们来美国探望我的时候,我还是把 Claire 介绍给他们,借此让他们清楚地知道:我只要和这个女孩在一起,无论在任何情况下,我们都不会放弃。

经过这些风风雨雨,我们始终还在一起。我们希望在余生中,我们都能够一直这样幸福地走下去。我很幸运能找到我完美的那位。

▼ 网友们看完这个真实故事以后,都表示这对恋人的爱情太美好了!

▼ 连单身狗都表示“蓝瘦香菇”了!

▼ 这个故事提醒大家:无论距离多遥远,只要双方愿意努力,就不成问题!

▼ 一些过来人在留言板上,留言鼓励他们!加油!

照片来源:allworldreport

▼ 有些网友表示自己很幸运,虽然也是异国恋,但却得到家人的支持与祝福。

▼ 网友留言:「以后结婚时,一定要让我们知道哦!」

▼ 这位网友就是印裔和台裔所生下的混血儿!

▼ 网友们纷纷送上祝福给他们!

远距离恋爱3年走来真的不容易!加油哦!你们一定会越来越幸福的!

照片来源:malltina

原文:

This is a story about an interracial couple, a long distance relationship and most importantly, tons of love.

Three years ago, I left Hong Kong and went to the University of British Columbia for my semester abroad. At one of the exchange student parties, I met this Taiwanese girl called Claire Chen. She was drunk, and asked me to add her on Facebook. I felt it was weird that she told me to do so within two minutes of meeting her, but then we were on exchange, so I added her anyway. Guess what? She didn’t even remember me the next day, but she still accepted my request. Three years later, we’re still together.

90% of our time has been in long distance: HK-Taipei, Mumbai-Taipei, Pittsburgh-Washington DC, and now Pittsburgh-Taipei. LDR has not been easy, but we have done everything to make sure it works out: trusting each other, never lying, never cheating, and finding different ways to show love to each other. Conquering all the barriers we’ve met, hopefully we’ll be in the same city in the near future.

I visited her in Taipei thrice, and her family absolutely loves me. They all have golden hearts and are very accepting of our interracial love. Wish I could say the same about my family, who have not been supportive of our interracial relationship. They don’t accept her as a serious, long-term commitment and future wife because of her skin, and tried to make me break up with her (and find a “nice Indian girl” instead). But they don’t defeat us. I still introduced her to them when they visited me in the US and made it clear that I’m fully committed to this girl. We’re not gonna give up under any circumstances.

Through thick and thin, we have been together, and we expect to be happily together for the rest of our lives. I feel so lucky to have found my perfect one.

来源:Facebook

用3年的时间感动父母!华裔男子娶非裔为妻!